Streamlined Separation Agreements in Hamilton

Choosing Mediation Over the Traditional Legal Process

When going through a separation or divorce, couples often assume hiring individual lawyers is their only option for resolving issues such as property division, along with the matrimonial home and other shared assets. However, this traditional approach frequently leads to prolonged proceedings, escalating costs, and increased emotional stress. Mediation offers a more efficient alternative, helping couples reach fair agreements without the delays inherent in the conventional legal system. Understanding the key differences between these approaches can help couples make informed decisions about their separation process.

Understanding the Traditional Legal Process

The Reality of a Lawyer-Driven Separation

The traditional legal approach involves each spouse hiring separate family law lawyers who communicate through formal letters, motions, and court appearances. This adversarial system often creates unnecessary conflict and significant delays. Lawyers’ busy schedules, court backlogs, and the billing structure of legal firms can extend separations for years rather than months.
Each lawyer operates independently, representing their client’s interests, which often leads to a breakdown in direct communication between spouses. Simple decisions that could be made in a single conversation between spouses end up requiring multiple letters, phone calls, and billable hours between lawyers. This disconnect not only prolongs the process but can also create new conflicts and misunderstandings.

Systemic Delays in Traditional Legal Processes

Several factors contribute to lengthy traditional separations:

Court backlogs extending 12-24 months for simple hearings
Lawyers juggling multiple cases leading to scheduling conflicts
Time spent waiting for responses to legal correspondence
The billable hour system incentivizes delayed resolution
Multiple court appearances required for even minor disagreements
Administrative delays in document processing
Time needed for discovery and information exchange between lawyers
Postponements due to lawyer or court scheduling conflicts

The Financial Impact of Traditional Legal Proceedings

Traditional legal proceedings operate on billable hours, meaning lawyers charge for every phone call, email, letter, and court appearance. With legal fees ranging from $300-$600 or more per hour, prolonged proceedings can quickly deplete family resources. A two-year separation through traditional legal channels can easily cost each spouse $50,000 to $150,000 or more, funds that could be better used to purchase a new home or to send their
children to university.

These costs often escalate due to:

Multiple court appearances and preparation time
Lengthy correspondence between lawyers
Document preparation and review
Motion drafting and responses.
Discovery processes and demands.
Expert witness fees when required.
Court filing fees and administrative costs

How Mediation Streamlined Separation Agreements in Hamilton

Mediation in cities like Hamilton and across Ontario takes a fundamentally different approach to resolving divorce disputes. Instead of two lawyers managing negotiations through formal legal channels, a single mediator works directly with both spouses. Family mediation utilizes this direct communication to dramatically reduce delays and misunderstandings, offering an alternative to hiring a family lawyer. Mediators focus on facilitating direct dialogue between spouses, identifying common ground, developing practical solutions, and moving efficiently toward agreement.

The Mediator’s Role in Efficient Resolution

Professional mediators bring specific skills and techniques that expedite the separation process:

Facilitating productive communication between parties
Identifying and addressing emotional barriers to settlement
Keeping discussions focused on solutions rather than past conflicts
Helping parties explore creative options for resolution
Ensuring both parties have equal voice in family law negotiations regarding the divorce, separation agreement, property division, the matrimonial home, financial support, and other key issues in Hamilton, Ontario
Managing time effectively during sessions
Maintaining focus on the most important issues

Time and Cost Comparison

While traditional legal separations and divorce often take 2-3 years, mediated agreements typically conclude within 1-3 months. This dramatic difference stems from the streamlined nature of mediation compared to the lengthy traditional process.

Mediation Process Timeline:

Initial consultation and process overview: 1-2 days
- Financial disclosure and document gathering: 2-4 weeks
- Joint negotiation sessions: 1-3 months
- Agreement drafting and review: 2-4 weeks
- Independent legal review if desired: 2-3 weeks (dependent on lawyers’ availability)
- Final document signing and filing: 1-2 weeks

Note: Most of these timeframes are client driven. Mediators work with the parties to streamline this process.

Cost-Effective Resolution

While lawyers typically require substantial retainers ($5,000-$15,000 per person) and charge for every interaction, mediators often work on a flat-fee or per-session basis. A complete mediated Agreement usually costs less than $5,000 per person, a fraction of the cost of legal fees.

This cost efficiency comes from:

Shared mediator costs instead of two separate lawyers
Focused productive sessions rather than billable delays.
Direct communication reducing unnecessary correspondence.
Avoiding costly court appearances.
Streamlined document preparation.
Reduced administrative overhead

The Mediation Process (Positive Solutions Divorce Services®)

Initial Consultation (No charge)

Positive Solutions offers a free, 30-minute, joint consultation where both parties meet with an experienced member of our Hamilton, Ontario-based mediation team. This initial meeting serves as an introduction to our services and allows us to understand the party’s unique situation. We believe in transparency and ensuring our clients have all the information needed to make informed decisions about the separation and divorce process.

Individual Meetings

The individual meeting is a mandatory 60-minute private session between each party and their mediator. This confidential meeting provides a safe space for our clients to openly discuss their concerns, ask questions, and share their priorities without the presence of their spouse. The mediator will carefully assess the situation to ensure divorce mediation is appropriate for the couple to proceed and help them understand what documentation will be needed to prepare for discussions in the joint meetings.

Structured Meetings

The mediator guides couples through a systematic process while creating comprehensive documentation at each stage. This structured approach ensures all aspects of the separation are properly addressed and documented, providing the parties with concrete proposals rather than abstract discussions. Documents that are drafted during the mediation process are as follows:

Comprehensive Financial Reports

The mediator begins by gathering complete financial disclosure from both parties, a crucial first step in the separation process, especially in Hamilton, Ontario where specific provincial laws may apply. Clients provide detailed information about all assets, including, but not limited to the matrimonial home, which is crucial during divorce proceedings:

Mortgage statements,
Line of credit statements,
Credit card statements, and
any other liabilities.

The mediator compiles this information into a comprehensive financial report, presenting a clear picture of the family’s complete financial situation and assessing the need for financial support. They develop multiple scenarios for achieving equitable distribution, considering factors such as tax implications, timing of transfers, and practical implementation challenges. This helps couples understand their options and make informed decisions about property division.

Child and Spousal Support Calculations

Mediators generate child and spousal support calculations based on the Federal Child Support Guidelines (FCSG) and the Spousal Support Advisory Guidelines (SSAG). These calculations include detailed income analyses for both parties and explore various tax implications. The mediator prepares comprehensive reports showing different support options including provisions for children’s special expenses and cost-sharing arrangements.

Parenting Plans

Creating a workable parenting plan requires careful attention to detail and consideration of the family’s unique circumstances within the framework of family law. Through discussion with the parties, Mediators develop a comprehensive parenting plan that address regular parenting time, holidays, and special occasions as well as a decision-making framework for important aspects of their children’s lives. These plans can also extend beyond basic schedules to include detailed protocols for
parent communication, specific procedures for resolving future parenting disputes and much more. The goal is to create a thorough document that provides clarity and stability for both parents and children.

Separation Agreements

A separation agreement is a legally binding document that outlines the terms of the separation. These documents incorporate all terms of the separation, that were discussed and agreed upon during mediation, while ensuring compliance with legal requirements. The agreement will include clear rationales for any deviations from standard guidelines, ensuring the agreement will withstand legal scrutiny while reflecting the couple’s specific circumstances and intentions.

Concluding Session and Implementation Planning

The Concluding Session is the final step after the completion of a Separation Agreement, providing clients in Hamilton and Ontario with guidance on implementing their agreement effectively. This session includes instructions for essential tasks such as filing the agreement with the court, notifying the CRA of marital status changes, pension credit splits, and support payment arrangements. It also reviews detailed time frames for asset transfers, insurance updates, and beneficiary changes to ensure all practical aspects are properly addressed and
documented. By offering a clear implementation plan, the session helps reduce the likelihood of future conflicts or misunderstandings and prepares clients for life after separation.

Throughout this systematic process, mediators maintain an active role in document preparation and calculations, presenting drafts and revisions for discussion and refinement. This approach combines the efficiency of mediation with the thoroughness of proper legal documentation, ensuring all aspects of the separation are properly addressed. The mediator’s expertise in preparing these essential documents helps couples move through the separation process more quickly and cost-effectively compared to traditional
legal channels, while still ensuring all necessary legal and practical considerations are properly documented and addressed.

The preparation and revision of these documents, including the separation agreement, often occurs between sessions, allowing couples to review proposals and consider implications before making decisions. This thoughtful approach helps maintain the efficiency of the mediation process while ensuring all decisions are well-informed and carefully documented. The result is a comprehensive set of separation documents that not only meets legal requirements but also provides clear guidance for the couple’s future interactions and responsibilities.

Legal Review and Finalization

Once couples reach agreement through mediation, it is recommended that each party obtain independent legal advice (ILA) to ensure their legal rights are protected. This ensures protection of rights while maintaining the efficiency of the mediation process. The final agreement carries the same legal weight as one reached through traditional litigation but is achieved in a fraction of the time for a
fraction of the cost.

Real Impact: Case Studies

The Thompson Separation

The Thompsons initially hired lawyers and spent eight months waiting for court dates and exchanging hostile correspondence. After switching to mediation, they completed their separation agreement in just ten weeks, saving over $90,000 in combined legal fees. Their experience highlighted how the traditional legal system’s adversarial nature often
escalates conflict while mediation promotes cooperation.

The Rivera Family

Maria and Carlos Rivera chose mediation specifically to avoid the adversarial court system. Their mediator helped them develop a comprehensive parenting plan and financial settlement in two months through family mediation. They were able to maintain a good co-parenting relationship which allowed them to focus on the children and support their well being.

Conclusion & Practical Next Steps

The choice between traditional legal proceedings and mediation significantly impacts both the duration and cost of a separation and divorce. While lawyers operating within the court system face inherent delays and billing structures that can prolong proceedings, mediation offers a direct path to resolution. By choosing mediation, couples can maintain control over their separation process, achieve faster resolution, and preserve resources for the next stage of their lives.

The efficiency of mediation not only saves time and money but also reduces the emotional toll of divorce by promoting cooperative problem-solving rather than adversarial positioning. For couples seeking a swift, cost-effective, and less stressful path to separation, mediation offers a compelling alternative to traditional legal proceedings. The focus on direct communication, mutual understanding, and practical solutions helps couples move forward constructively.

If you’re ready to move forward with a process that puts you in control, contact Positive Solutions Divorce Services® today to schedule your free 30-minute joint consultation.

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By addressing these important legal and financial matters through mediation, couples can reduce conflict, save money, and reach mutually beneficial solutions without going to court.

Throughout the process, we maintain a neutral stance, ensuring that both parties’ voices are heard, and their interests are considered. Our goal is to help you reach a comprehensive separation agreement that addresses all aspects of your separation, while minimizing conflict and preserving important relationships. By choosing our mediation services, you can navigate your separation with greater control, reduced stress, and significant cost savings compared to traditional litigation. Positive Solutions Divorce Services provides professional mediation services to families across Ontario, helping couples in cities like Toronto, Ottawa, Mississauga, and beyond reach fair and amicable agreements.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What types of issues can mediation help us resolve?

Mediation through Positive Solutions supports nearly every aspect of separation. Our trained mediators guide couples through key topics like parenting plans, including schedules and decision-making; child and spousal support calculations based on Ontario and federal guidelines; property equalization for fair division of assets and debts; drafting separation agreements; and the divorce application process itself. We also assist with domestic contracts such as cohabitation or prenuptial agreements. Our goal is to provide a comprehensive, one-stop mediation solution that helps you finalize all separation-related matters without needing multiple professionals or a court battle—saving you time, money, and stress.

How does the mediation process work?

Divorce mediation at Positive Solutions follows a structured and supportive process:

Free, joint consultation to introduce mediation and learn about your situation.
Individual intake sessions, where you’ll complete financial checklists and explore concerns privately.
Joint mediation meetings in-person or online, where we address parenting, finances, support, and property.
Drafting your Separation Agreement, reflecting your jointly reached decisions.
Legal review (strongly recommended) before signing the agreement.
Final session to outline and confirm next steps (e.g., filing divorce, implementing changes).

This approach provides clarity, fairness, and a plan personalized to your family’s needs—without court involvement.

Can mediation save us money and time compared to going to court?

Yes—mediation is typically much faster and more affordable than traditional litigation. Court cases can drag on for months or years and involve high legal fees. Mediation, on the other hand, usually concludes in 4–8 sessions over a few months, and our flat-fee packages are transparent with optional payment plans. Because you maintain control over decisions and timing, mediation allows for quicker resolutions—and avoids court scheduling delays, motion costs, and unpredictable outcomes. For many of our clients, this means saving thousands of dollars and protecting family budgets during a challenging life transition.

What role does confidentiality play in mediation?

Confidentiality is a cornerstone of our mediation process. Unlike court hearings, which are public, mediation sessions remain private—nothing discussed is part of public record. This allows couples to speak honestly without fear. Mediators adhere to professional confidentiality standards, and any notes taken are securely stored or destroyed. The only exceptions involve legal obligations, such as threats of harm or child protection concerns. Confidentiality helps maintain dignity and trust throughout the process and enables more open, constructive communication.

What happens if we can’t agree on something during mediation?

While mediation aims for comprehensive agreement, it’s flexible if you encounter roadblocks. Mediators will help you explore options, break complex issues into manageable steps, or refer you to specialists—like financial advisors or therapists—as needed. If a specific topic remains unresolved, you can pause mediation or choose targeted legal advice on that point. Importantly, the rest of your agreement can still move forward while specific issues are addressed separately. Our goal is to help you reach as much agreement as possible, while respecting your unique circumstances and pacing.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is property equalization in Ontario?

Property equalization is the process of dividing the increase in value of each spouse’s net worth accumulated during the marriage. The spouse with the higher net family property pays half the difference to the other spouse.

How is net family property (NFP) calculated?

NFP is calculated by subtracting the value of assets and debts on the date of marriage from the value of assets and debts on the date of separation. Certain exclusions and deductions (like inheritances or gifts) may apply

What property is excluded from equalization?

Excluded property includes inheritances, gifts from third parties, personal injury awards, and certain insurance proceeds, if kept separate from joint assets. The matrimonial home is not excluded, even if it was inherited or owned before marriage.

Does property equalization apply to common-law couples in Ontario?

No. Property equalization under the Family Law Act applies only to married spouses. Common-law partners are not automatically entitled to a share of each other’s property and must rely on trust claims or specific agreements.

Can spouses agree to divide property differently than equalization rules?

Yes. Spouses can negotiate their own terms in a separation agreement, which can differ from what the law provides, as long as both parties disclose their finances and the agreement is fair and voluntarily entered into.

Frequently Asked Questions

How is child support calculated in Ontario?

Child support is calculated using the Federal Child Support Guidelines, primarily based on the paying parent’s gross annual income and the number of children. The amount can vary depending on parenting time arrangements.

Do both parents have to pay child support?

Typically, the parent with less parenting time (or the one not primarily residing with the child) pays support. However, in shared parenting arrangements, both parents’ incomes are considered, and a set-off approach may apply.

What income is used for child support calculations?

Gross annual income from all sources is used, including employment, self-employment, commissions, rental income, and certain benefits. Line 15000 of the tax return (previously Line 150) is commonly referenced.

Can child support be adjusted over time?

Yes. Child support is reviewed and adjusted if there is a significant change in income, parenting arrangements, or the child’s needs. Annual income disclosure is often required.

Does child support cover extracurricular activities or school expenses?

No. Basic child support covers food, clothing, and shelter. Special or extraordinary expenses (like daycare, medical costs, or extracurriculars) are separate and typically shared proportionally based on each parent’s income.

Frequently Asked Questions

How is spousal support determined?

Spousal support is based on several factors, including the length of the relationship, the roles each partner played during the relationship, each person’s financial situation, and whether there are children. The Spousal Support Advisory Guidelines (SSAGs) provide ranges for amount and duration.

Is spousal support mandatory after separation or divorce?

Not always. Eligibility depends on factors like financial need, the ability to pay, and any agreements made during the relationship. Spousal support is not automatic and may be negotiated or decided through mediation or by a court.

How long does spousal support last?

Duration depends on the length of the relationship and the recipient’s circumstances. A common guideline is 0.5 to 1 year of support for each year of cohabitation, but long-term relationships or those involving children may warrant indefinite support.

Can spousal support be changed after it’s been agreed upon or ordered?

Yes. Spousal support can be varied if there is a material change in circumstances (e.g., job loss, retirement, significant income change). This often requires mediation, negotiation, or court review.

Is spousal support tax deductible?

Spousal support payments are generally tax-deductible for the payer and taxable income for the recipient—but only if:

The payments are made periodically (e.g., monthly), not as a lump sum.
There is a written separation agreement or court order in place.
The support is clearly identified as spousal support (not child support).

Frequently Asked Questions

What Are Domestic Contracts and Why Do I Need One?

A domestic contract is a legal agreement developed between two individuals—spouses, common-law partners, or couples planning to cohabit—to manage their rights, responsibilities, and expectations during a relationship or after separation. Common types include cohabitation agreements, marriage contracts (prenups), separation agreements, and post-divorce contracts.

These agreements help address important matters such as property division, financial support, and decision-making, setting clear expectations and preventing misunderstandings. They offer stability and peace of mind, particularly for couples entering a long-term partnership, blending families, or protecting assets from a previous marriage. Domestic contracts are legally binding when properly drafted, signed, and executed following Ontario guidelines. Investing in one now can reduce costly legal disputes and emotional stress later, while giving both parties transparency around financial and familial arrangements.

How Does the Domestic Contract Process Work?

Here’s a step-by-step summary of our domestic contract process:

Free Introductory Meeting: We’ll clarify the type of contract you want, answer initial questions, and explain how the process works.
Individual Intake Sessions: Each person meets privately with a mediator to gather personal goals, values, and relevant financial information.
Drafting Discussions: Parties and mediator work through key terms (asset protection, decision-making, support provisions, etc.), either in person or online.
Agreement Drafting: Mediators prepare a draft that reflects your discussions and intentions.
Review and Independent Legal Advice: Each person meets their lawyer to review the contract and ask questions.
Signing and Implementation: Once both parties sign, the contract becomes legally binding. We help with filing or registering it if necessary.
Follow-Up as Needed: Should circumstances change, you can revisit and revise the agreement.

This clear, collaborative pathway ensures your domestic contract aligns with both your needs and Ontario’s legal framework.

What Topics Can a Domestic Contract Cover?

Domestic contracts are highly customizable. Commonly addressed topics include:

Property and financial asset division, including bank accounts, investments, and real estate
Debt allocation, including student loans or mortgages
Spousal support terms, such as fixed amounts, duration, or waivers
Decision-making authority around children (when applicable)
Inheritance or estate planning considerations, especially for stepfamilies
Roles and financial responsibilities during the relationship
Business ownership interests or professional practice protection

We work with you to design an agreement that reflects your specific goals and realities. Our mediators guide both partners through open, respectful discussions to reach outcomes that fit your unique circumstances—whether emphasizing protection, clarity, or flexibility.

How Do You Ensure a Contract Is Legally Enforceable?

To make sure your domestic contract holds up in court, our process deeply focuses on key legal elements:

Full and accurate financial disclosure from both parties
Voluntary participation, ensuring no one is coerced
Clear and understandable language, without hidden clauses or ambiguity
Independent legal advice for each party prior to signing
Proper execution, including witnessing and notarization as required
Timely documentation, ensuring the agreement is signed and dated correctly

By following this framework, we help you create a strong, legally valid agreement that stands the test of time—and avoids future challenges around interpretation or legitimacy.

What Happens If Life Changes After Signing?

Life is rarely static—and your domestic contract should adapt with you. Whether you get married, have children, or experience a change in income, we can help modify your agreement to suit evolving needs.

Here’s how we guide updates:

We begin with a brief review session to identify which parts of your contract need attention.
New discussions follow about updated goals and circumstances.
Draft revisions are prepared to reflect those changes, with clear acknowledgment of the original contract.
Legal reviews and re-signing ensure the updated contract remains valid.

This adaptable process empowers you to maintain clarity and fairness as life shifts—while preserving the legal integrity and intent of your original agreement.

Frequently Asked Questions

How do I apply for a divorce in Ontario?

You must complete and file a divorce application with the Ontario Superior Court of Justice. This includes submitting a copy of your marriage certificate, any related court orders or agreements, and paying the required filing fees. You can file jointly or individually.

What are the grounds for divorce in Ontario?

The only legal ground for divorce in Canada is a breakdown of the marriage, which can be proven by:

One year of separation (most common),
Adultery, or
Physical or mental cruelty.

Can I apply for a divorce without going to court?

Yes. If all other matters (support, property, parenting) are resolved and documented (e.g., in a separation agreement), you can apply for an uncontested or joint divorce, which usually does not require a court appearance.

How long does it take to get a divorce in Ontario?

Once the application is submitted, an uncontested divorce typically takes about 2 to 3 months, depending on court processing times. Delays may occur if documentation is incomplete or if the application is contested.

Do I need a lawyer to file for divorce in Ontario?

No, a lawyer is not required, especially for uncontested or joint divorces. However, it’s wise to obtain legal information or assistance—particularly to ensure your documents are accurate before filing.

Frequently Asked Questions

What should be included in a parenting plan?

A parenting plan typically outlines the parenting schedule (days, holidays, vacations), decision-making responsibilities, communication protocols between parents and with the child, transportation arrangements, and guidelines for resolving disagreements.

How is parenting time determined in Ontario?

Parenting time is based on the best interests of the child, considering factors like the child’s needs, relationships with each parent, routines, and each parent’s ability to care for the child.

Can a parenting plan be changed after it's finalized?

Yes. Parenting plans can be revised if both parents agree or if there has been a significant change in circumstances. Mediation can assist if parents disagree on the changes.

What happens if one parent doesn’t follow the parenting plan?

If a parent fails to comply with the agreed-upon plan, the other parent can seek enforcement through family court or return to mediation to resolve the conflict.

Is mediation required to create a parenting plan?

While not mandatory, mediation is strongly encouraged as it promotes cooperation and helps parents create a plan tailored to their family’s unique needs without going to court.

Throughout the mediation process, we encourage open communication and creative problem-solving, often uncovering mutually beneficial solutions. Our goal is to help you create a separation agreement that provides clarity and stability during this transitional period, while also being flexible enough to adapt to future changes.

By choosing our mediation services for your separation agreement, you can often achieve a more personalized and comprehensive document than one created through traditional legal channels, potentially saving time, reducing costs, and laying the groundwork for a more amicable post-separation relationship.

A Separation Agreement is a legally binding document that outlines how separating spouses will divide parenting responsibilities, property, and finances after a relationship ends. At Positive Solutions Divorce Services®, we help couples create clear, enforceable Separation Agreements through mediation—without going to court.

Our trained mediators guide both partners through every topic that matters: parenting time, decision making, child support, spousal support, and property equalization. We offer a calm, structured environment where couples can resolve issues respectfully and affordably. Once decisions are made, we prepare a comprehensive agreement that can be reviewed by independent legal counsel and signed to become legally binding in Ontario.

*Separation Agreements Disclaimer

*The information included in a Separation Agreement, or other applicable documents, is purely a guide and cannot substitute for a lawyer’s skill, knowledge, and careful drafting. These documents are simply reflective of the information received from you and are an administrative service only.

Positive Solutions Divorce Services® does not warrant and is not liable or responsible for ensuring the validity and/or enforceability of any Agreement or clause in an Agreement and remains your full and sole responsibility. Full financial disclosure is a crucial element in the preparation of any Agreement. It is also critical that you understand your rights and obligations under existing law.

In many circumstances, the Agreement will be addressing complex assets and issues, such as corporations, trusts, pensions, tax implications etc. In these cases, it is imperative that the actual relevant documentation be reviewed and that the expertise of an accountant or specialist in the subject area be consulted to ensure that the Agreement properly addresses these complex assets and issues. It is strongly recommended that you retain Independent Legal Advice before signing any documentation arising out of the end of your marriage or common law relationship.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is a separation agreement?

A separation agreement is a legally binding contract between separating spouses that outlines how they will handle key issues such as parenting time, decision-making, child support, spousal support, and division of property.

Is a separation agreement legally enforceable in Ontario?

Yes. If properly drafted with full financial disclosure, signed voluntarily by both parties, and witnessed, it is enforceable in court under Ontario’s Family Law Act and Contracts Law.

Do I need a lawyer to create a separation agreement?

While not legally required, it is recommended that both parties obtain independent legal advice (ILA) before signing. This ensures the agreement is fair and helps prevent future legal challenges.

Can a separation agreement be changed after it’s signed?

Yes. It can be amended by mutual agreement if circumstances change. If there is disagreement, the matter may require mediation, negotiation, or a court application to vary the agreement.

What happens if one spouse doesn’t follow the separation agreement?

If a party breaches the agreement, the other may enforce it through court proceedings. The court can compel compliance, including orders for payment or changes in parenting time or support.