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Creating Effective Parenting Plans in Toronto, Ontario

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Creating Effective Parenting Plans in Toronto, Ontario Parenting Plans in Toronto: A Comprehensive Guide for Separating Parents As a separating parent in Toronto, Ontario, navigating the complexities of co-parenting and maintaining open…

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Divorce Day in Ontario

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Divorce Day in Ontario: A New Start for Many Separating Couples Understanding the "Divorce Day" Phenomenon and January trends The phenomenon of Divorce Day, observed on the first working day…

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Benefits of Mediation

Divorce Mediation is an alternative method for couples wanting an amicable divorce and are seeking a less adversarial and more collaborative approach to divorce proceedings. The traditional divorce process using divorce lawyers can be a very adversarial process.

Divorce mediation (also known as Family Mediation) allows spouses to work together with the help of a neutral third-party mediator to amicably settle the terms of their divorce. Divorce mediation offers numerous benefits for couples going through the challenging process of ending their marriage.

Overview of the mediation process

Divorce mediation is a voluntary process and confidential method of resolving disputes. It is an alternative dispute resolution process which involves a neutral third party known as a mediator. The main goal of mediation is to facilitate communication and negotiation between the parties involved, with the aim of reaching a mutually acceptable agreement. The divorce process begins with both parties agreeing to participate in mediation.

Once both parties agree to move forward with mediation, the mediator will schedule individual meetings with each party to discuss their concerns and desired outcomes. The divorce mediator will also determine if mediation is an appropriate alternative to the legal process.

During the joint mediation sessions, the parties will discuss issues pertaining to the division of their property, family support and parenting arrangements. The mediator will facilitate open communication, ensuring that each party has the chance to speak and be heard. The mediator also helps to identify the key issues in dispute and assists in exploring possible solutions so the parties can make informed decisions, in order to come to a mutual agreement. The mediator’s role is to remain neutral and impartial throughout the process and ultimately, the final decisions are made by the parties themselves. If an agreement is reached, the Professional Mediators can formalize the terms of the separation in a Separation Agreement.

Overall, the mediation process provides a structured and facilitated approach to resolving conflicts, can help couples save thousands of dollars and years in divorce litigation, and allows them to maintain control over the outcome.

The Benefits of Mediation

Reduced Conflict: Mediation for Divorce promotes a cooperative atmosphere, reducing conflict and creating a more positive environment for negotiation compared to the traditional divorce process. By minimizing animosity and promoting respectful dialogue, couples are more likely to find mutually agreeable solutions.
Cost-effective: Mediation an affordable alternative and is often significantly less expensive than traditional litigation, as it requires fewer formalities then when using a divorce lawyer. With mediation, couples can reduce their divorce cost and save both time and money
Confidentiality: The Divorce Mediation is a confidential process and offers greater privacy compared to a public court process. Confidentiality ensures that personal and sensitive information remains protected and does not become part of the public record.
Flexibility: A Mediated Divorce allows couples to maintain control over their divorce agreement, unlike court-imposed decisions. This is important when it comes to division of assets or division of property. Parties have the freedom to craft solutions that meet their unique needs and circumstances, providing a custom-tailored outcome.
Faster Resolution: There are obvious benefits to a faster resolution and the divorce mediation process typically progresses more swiftly than typical divorce proceedings using divorce lawyers, as couples are not bound by lawyer and court schedules. The ability to schedule sessions at mutually convenient times accelerates the process, allowing couples to reach resolutions more efficiently.
Amicable Co-Parenting: Mediation encourages effective co-parenting by fostering improved communication and collaboration. By working together to establish a parenting plan for their children, which includes, custody, visitation schedules, decision-making arrangements, couples can create amicable relationships and a foundation for future co-parenting success.
Reduced Emotional Stress: The cooperative nature of mediation promotes a less adversarial atmosphere, reducing emotional stress for both parties involved. By using a neutral mediator, enables couples to reduce the emotional toll of a divorce to focus on their individual well-being and the well-being of their children.

Summary

Mediation is a non-adversarial process. The process of mediation will help separating couples find common ground and come to an agreement on the terms of their separation and offers a range of benefits that can make the often emotionally charged divorce process more manageable. For couples with children, a skilled mediator can suggest creative solutions that could minimize the impact on children.

By fostering cooperation, reducing conflict, and maintaining control over the outcome, mediation allows couples to effectively address their issues and to have an amicable divorce.

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Our proven mediation process and what you can expect at each stage
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Michele has over 25 years’ experience as an Executive Assistant and Office Manager in the real estate industry and Family Law firm, Michele is a seasoned Executive Assistant with extensive knowledge in many areas.

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She loves laughing with her friends when she is not running her children around to their sporting events or university ventures.

Michele King

Office Manager

She is the one to go to with any questions. In Michele’s free time, she enjoys spending time with her husband and 3 active children, ages 21, 19 and 18.

She loves laughing with her friends when she is not running her children around to their sporting events or university ventures.

Taralea Scammell

Mediator Acc.FM

Taralea Scammell is an Accredited Family Mediator, AccFm OAFM, and Alternative Dispute Resolution ADR Practitioner. She studied and received her Certificate in Advanced Family Mediation and Conflict Management at Conrad Grebel College University. Taralea has extensive experience in mediation approaches that include family, elder and victim offender reconciliation.

Taralea has been working with families in crisis and those involved with child protection agencies for twenty five years. She is an accredited Family Group Conference Coordinator, an ADR response for families involved with child protection agencies in Ontario.

Currently, she is practicing Family Mediation and supporting families who are experiencing difficulties in their relationships and those involved in the process of separation and divorce.

Taralea Scammell

Mediator Acc.FM

Currently, she is practicing Family Mediation and supporting families who are experiencing difficulties in their relationships and those involved in the process of separation and divorce.

Ryan McDougall

Mediator Q.MED, PM

After spending 20 years working in law firms on family law files involving separation and divorce, Ryan realized the traditional legal system for divorce was costly and had a negative effect on families. She knew there was a better way.

In 2012 Ryan completed her Conflict Dispute Resolution Certification with Alternative Dispute Resolution Institute of Alberta and has had a successful practice mediating separating families ever since.

Ryan holds a Q.Med designation with the Alternative Dispute Resolution Institute of Alberta and Canada as well as a PM designation with Alberta Family Mediation Society and Family Mediation of Canada. Ryan is the first mediator on our team to provide services to our Alberta clients.

Ryan McDougall

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Amanda Silver

Mediator Acc.FM

Amanda is an Accredited Family Mediator, a Court-Connected Family Mediator, and a member of the Ontario Association for Family Mediation (OAFM). Amanda is certified in Online Dispute Resolution and provides comprehensive family mediation services which includes parenting plans, child support, spousal support, and property division. She completed her mediation training through York University and Family Mediation Training Canada. After going through the divorce process, herself, Amanda was inspired to become a family mediator with the hope of helping others going through separation and divorce.

In addition to being a family mediator, Amanda is also a teacher and a member of the Ontario College of Teachers (OCT). Amanda has extensive experience working with children and families from a variety of backgrounds. She takes great pride in her ability to bring families together, improve communication, and assist them in coming to a resolution.

Karalyn Marsala

Mediator Acc.FM

Karalyn is an Accredited Family Mediator with an extensive background in finance. Karalyn graduated from the Ted Rogers School of Business at Ryerson University with a business degree and continued her education by completing a certificate in Family Mediation at York University.

Karalyn’s financial background along with her training in dispute resolution gives her the ability to use interest based negotiation tools to assist married and common law spouses with their separation. Karalyn strongly believes that the mediation process is an excellent way to communicate effectively, identify common interests and find a middle ground within disputes.

Karalyn Marsala

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Dana Macrito-Carelli

Mediator Acc.FM

Dana is an Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.

Dana graduated from York University with a BA in Sociology and continued her education in Dispute Resolution through Conrad Grebel University in Waterloo.

Dana Macrito-Carelli

Mediator Acc.FM

Dana is an Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.

Dana graduated from York University with a BA in Sociology and continued her education in Dispute Resolution through Conrad Grebel University in Waterloo.

Bev Lewis

Founder & CEO, Mediator Acc.FM

Bev is the founder and CEO of Positive Solutions Divorce Services. Bev is an Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst. Bev graduated from McMaster University with an Under Graduate Diploma in Family Mediation and continued her education in Transformative Mediation through Conrad Grebel University.

She has also completed training in Arbitration through Riverdale Mediation. Bev is passionate about keeping families out of the adversarial court process. She created Positive Solutions Divorce Services® to give couples an amicable alternative to settling issues after the breakdown of their marriage.

Parenting Plan Mediation for Separating Parents in Ontario

Parenting plan mediation with father and children – Ontario

At Positive Solutions Divorce Services, we specialize in helping parents create comprehensive and child-focused parenting plans. Our experienced mediators guide you through the process of developing a plan that prioritizes your children’s well-being while addressing the practical realities of co-parenting.

We facilitate respectful and productive discussions, encouraging both parents to express their concerns and desires for their children’s care. Our team helps you explore various parenting arrangements, considering factors such as work schedules, living arrangements, and each child’s unique needs. We assist in crafting clear communication protocols and decision-making processes to minimize future conflicts.

Throughout the mediation, we keep the focus on your children’s best interests, helping you create a plan that provides stability, maintains important relationships, and allows for flexibility as your family’s needs evolve. By choosing our mediation services for developing your parenting plan, you can often achieve a more personalized and mutually satisfactory arrangement than a court-imposed order, setting a positive foundation for your ongoing co-parenting relationship. Ontario families turn to Positive Solutions Divorce Services for personalized parenting plans that prioritize children’s well-being in communities from Niagara Falls to Thunder Bay.

Co-parenting agreement through Positive Solutions® mediation

A parenting plan is a written agreement that outlines how parents will care for their children after separation. It includes details like parenting time (formerly “access”), decision making (formerly “custody”), communication guidelines, holiday schedules, and how disagreements will be resolved.

At Positive Solutions Divorce Services®, we help parents across Ontario, create parenting plans through mediation—a calm, child-focused approach that puts your children’s best interests first.

Our experienced mediators guide you through each section of the parenting plan and help ensure the agreement is fair, clear, and legally enforceable once signed. Whether you’re new to co-parenting or trying to resolve a conflict, we’re here to help both parents work together respectfully.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What should be included in a parenting plan?

A parenting plan typically outlines the parenting schedule (days, holidays, vacations), decision-making responsibilities, communication protocols between parents and with the child, transportation arrangements, and guidelines for resolving disagreements.

How is parenting time determined in Ontario?

Parenting time is based on the best interests of the child, considering factors like the child’s needs, relationships with each parent, routines, and each parent’s ability to care for the child.

Can a parenting plan be changed after it's finalized?

Yes. Parenting plans can be revised if both parents agree or if there has been a significant change in circumstances. Mediation can assist if parents disagree on the changes.

What happens if one parent doesn’t follow the parenting plan?

If a parent fails to comply with the agreed-upon plan, the other parent can seek enforcement through family court or return to mediation to resolve the conflict.

Is mediation required to create a parenting plan?

While not mandatory, mediation is strongly encouraged as it promotes cooperation and helps parents create a plan tailored to their family’s unique needs without going to court.

Separation Agreements

Signing a separation agreement – Positive Solutions Divorce Services

Our experienced mediators specialize in guiding couples through the process of crafting comprehensive separation agreements. We work closely with both parties to ensure all crucial aspects of your separation are addressed.

Our team helps you navigate complex issues such as property division, financial arrangements, and parenting responsibilities, always striving for solutions that are reasonable and sustainable for both parties. We assist in gathering and organizing all necessary information, ensuring that decisions are made with full transparency.

Couple reaching agreement through mediation in Ontario

Throughout the mediation process, we encourage open communication and creative problem-solving, often uncovering mutually beneficial solutions. Our goal is to help you create a separation agreement that provides clarity and stability during this transitional period, while also being flexible enough to adapt to future changes.

By choosing our mediation services for your separation agreement, you can often achieve a more personalized and comprehensive document than one created through traditional legal channels, potentially saving time, reducing costs, and laying the groundwork for a more amicable post-separation relationship.

A Separation Agreement is a legally binding document that outlines how separating spouses will divide parenting responsibilities, property, and finances after a relationship ends. At Positive Solutions Divorce Services®, we help couples create clear, enforceable Separation Agreements through mediation—without going to court.

Our trained mediators guide both partners through every topic that matters: parenting time, decision making, child support, spousal support, and property equalization. We offer a calm, structured environment where couples can resolve issues respectfully and affordably. Once decisions are made, we prepare a comprehensive agreement that can be reviewed by independent legal counsel and signed to become legally binding in Ontario.

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*Separation Agreements Disclaimer

*The information included in a Separation Agreement, or other applicable documents, is purely a guide and cannot substitute for a lawyer’s skill, knowledge, and careful drafting. These documents are simply reflective of the information received from you and are an administrative service only.

Positive Solutions Divorce Services® does not warrant and is not liable or responsible for ensuring the validity and/or enforceability of any Agreement or clause in an Agreement and remains your full and sole responsibility. Full financial disclosure is a crucial element in the preparation of any Agreement. It is also critical that you understand your rights and obligations under existing law.

In many circumstances, the Agreement will be addressing complex assets and issues, such as corporations, trusts, pensions, tax implications etc. In these cases, it is imperative that the actual relevant documentation be reviewed and that the expertise of an accountant or specialist in the subject area be consulted to ensure that the Agreement properly addresses these complex assets and issues. It is strongly recommended that you retain Independent Legal Advice before signing any documentation arising out of the end of your marriage or common law relationship.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is a separation agreement?

A separation agreement is a legally binding contract between separating spouses that outlines how they will handle key issues such as parenting time, decision-making, child support, spousal support, and division of property.

Is a separation agreement legally enforceable in Ontario?

Yes. If properly drafted with full financial disclosure, signed voluntarily by both parties, and witnessed, it is enforceable in court under Ontario’s Family Law Act and Contracts Law.

Do I need a lawyer to create a separation agreement?

While not legally required, it is recommended that both parties obtain independent legal advice (ILA) before signing. This ensures the agreement is fair and helps prevent future legal challenges.

Can a separation agreement be changed after it’s signed?

Yes. It can be amended by mutual agreement if circumstances change. If there is disagreement, the matter may require mediation, negotiation, or a court application to vary the agreement.

What happens if one spouse doesn’t follow the separation agreement?

If a party breaches the agreement, the other may enforce it through court proceedings. The court can compel compliance, including orders for payment or changes in parenting time or support.

Divorce Applications

Couple applying for divorce with Positive Solutions® Ontario

At Positive Solutions Divorce Services, we can provide valuable assistance in preparing for and navigating the divorce application process. We offer guidance in gathering all necessary information and documents required for the application, ensuring accuracy and completeness.

Our team helps you understand the legal grounds for divorce in Ontario and how they apply to your specific situation. If you’ve already created a separation agreement, we can incorporate those terms into your divorce application, streamlining the process.

For those without a prior agreement, we can assist in drafting an agreement that outlines the terms of your separation such as property division, support arrangements, and parenting plans if needed.

Our goal is to help you initiate the divorce process ensuring all required information is included and properly presented. By utilizing our services during the divorce application phase, you can often achieve a smoother transition into the legal process, with clearer expectations and a stronger foundation for finalizing your divorce.

Divorce application services through mediation – Ontario

Once you’ve completed your Separation Agreement, the final step is often filing for divorce. At Positive Solutions Divorce Services®, we help couples across Ontario, file for an uncontested divorce—without going to court or hiring costly lawyers.

We guide you through the process of preparing and submitting your divorce application based on the terms outlined in your agreement. You must be separated for at least one year and have settled all parenting, support, and property matters. Once that’s complete, we prepare and file your application to make the divorce official in the eyes of the court.

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Frequently Asked Questions

How do I apply for a divorce in Ontario?

You must complete and file a divorce application with the Ontario Superior Court of Justice. This includes submitting a copy of your marriage certificate, any related court orders or agreements, and paying the required filing fees. You can file jointly or individually.

What are the grounds for divorce in Ontario?

The only legal ground for divorce in Canada is a breakdown of the marriage, which can be proven by:

One year of separation (most common),
Adultery, or
Physical or mental cruelty.

Can I apply for a divorce without going to court?

Yes. If all other matters (support, property, parenting) are resolved and documented (e.g., in a separation agreement), you can apply for an uncontested or joint divorce, which usually does not require a court appearance.

How long does it take to get a divorce in Ontario?

Once the application is submitted, an uncontested divorce typically takes about 2 to 3 months, depending on court processing times. Delays may occur if documentation is incomplete or if the application is contested.

Do I need a lawyer to file for divorce in Ontario?

No, a lawyer is not required, especially for uncontested or joint divorces. However, it’s wise to obtain legal information or assistance—particularly to ensure your documents are accurate before filing.

Domestic Contracts

Couple creating prenuptial agreement through mediation in Ontario

At Positive Solutions Divorce Services, we provide valuable assistance in drafting cohabitation and prenuptial agreements through our collaborative mediation process. As experienced mediators, we facilitate open and constructive discussions between couples, ensuring that both parties’ interests and concerns are thoroughly addressed in the agreement.

We guide couples through the crucial step of full financial disclosure, helping to create a comprehensive inventory of assets, debts, and financial expectations. Our team assists in exploring and negotiating fair terms that both parties feel comfortable with, often uncovering creative solutions that might not emerge in a more adversarial setting.

While we don’t offer legal advice, we help couples understand the typical components of these agreements and identify areas that may require special attention. Once the couple has reached a mutual understanding on the terms, we will draft the applicable document that the parties can then take to their respective lawyers for independent legal advice prior to signing.

Our mediated approach often results in more personalized, mutually satisfactory agreements while potentially saving time and reducing costs compared to purely lawyer-driven negotiations.

Mediated cohabitation agreement – Positive Solutions Divorce Services®

A domestic contract is a written agreement between two people in a relationship—often created before marriage, during cohabitation, or after separation. Common examples include prenuptial agreements, cohabitation agreements, and postnuptial contracts.

At Positive Solutions Divorce Services®, we help couples create personalized domestic contracts through mediation, avoiding conflict and expensive legal fees. Whether you’re planning for the future, clarifying expectations, or protecting your assets, a mediated agreement gives you control, clarity, and peace of mind.

Once complete, your agreement can be reviewed by independent legal counsel and becomes legally enforceable under provincial family law in Ontario.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What Are Domestic Contracts and Why Do I Need One?

A domestic contract is a legal agreement developed between two individuals—spouses, common-law partners, or couples planning to cohabit—to manage their rights, responsibilities, and expectations during a relationship or after separation. Common types include cohabitation agreements, marriage contracts (prenups), separation agreements, and post-divorce contracts.

These agreements help address important matters such as property division, financial support, and decision-making, setting clear expectations and preventing misunderstandings. They offer stability and peace of mind, particularly for couples entering a long-term partnership, blending families, or protecting assets from a previous marriage. Domestic contracts are legally binding when properly drafted, signed, and executed following Ontario guidelines. Investing in one now can reduce costly legal disputes and emotional stress later, while giving both parties transparency around financial and familial arrangements.

How Does the Domestic Contract Process Work?

Here’s a step-by-step summary of our domestic contract process:

Free Introductory Meeting: We’ll clarify the type of contract you want, answer initial questions, and explain how the process works.
Individual Intake Sessions: Each person meets privately with a mediator to gather personal goals, values, and relevant financial information.
Drafting Discussions: Parties and mediator work through key terms (asset protection, decision-making, support provisions, etc.), either in person or online.
Agreement Drafting: Mediators prepare a draft that reflects your discussions and intentions.
Review and Independent Legal Advice: Each person meets their lawyer to review the contract and ask questions.
Signing and Implementation: Once both parties sign, the contract becomes legally binding. We help with filing or registering it if necessary.
Follow-Up as Needed: Should circumstances change, you can revisit and revise the agreement.

This clear, collaborative pathway ensures your domestic contract aligns with both your needs and Ontario’s legal framework.

What Topics Can a Domestic Contract Cover?

Domestic contracts are highly customizable. Commonly addressed topics include:

Property and financial asset division, including bank accounts, investments, and real estate
Debt allocation, including student loans or mortgages
Spousal support terms, such as fixed amounts, duration, or waivers
Decision-making authority around children (when applicable)
Inheritance or estate planning considerations, especially for stepfamilies
Roles and financial responsibilities during the relationship
Business ownership interests or professional practice protection

We work with you to design an agreement that reflects your specific goals and realities. Our mediators guide both partners through open, respectful discussions to reach outcomes that fit your unique circumstances—whether emphasizing protection, clarity, or flexibility.

How Do You Ensure a Contract Is Legally Enforceable?

To make sure your domestic contract holds up in court, our process deeply focuses on key legal elements:

Full and accurate financial disclosure from both parties
Voluntary participation, ensuring no one is coerced
Clear and understandable language, without hidden clauses or ambiguity
Independent legal advice for each party prior to signing
Proper execution, including witnessing and notarization as required
Timely documentation, ensuring the agreement is signed and dated correctly

By following this framework, we help you create a strong, legally valid agreement that stands the test of time—and avoids future challenges around interpretation or legitimacy.

What Happens If Life Changes After Signing?

Life is rarely static—and your domestic contract should adapt with you. Whether you get married, have children, or experience a change in income, we can help modify your agreement to suit evolving needs.

Here’s how we guide updates:

We begin with a brief review session to identify which parts of your contract need attention.
New discussions follow about updated goals and circumstances.
Draft revisions are prepared to reflect those changes, with clear acknowledgment of the original contract.
Legal reviews and re-signing ensure the updated contract remains valid.

This adaptable process empowers you to maintain clarity and fairness as life shifts—while preserving the legal integrity and intent of your original agreement.

We're Experts in Spousal Support Calculations

Spousal support agreement in mediation – Ontario

At Positive Solutions Divorce Services, our skilled mediators offer expert guidance through the intricate process of spousal support negotiations. We create a respectful and neutral environment where both parties can openly discuss their financial circumstances and future goals.

Our team assists you in analyzing your financial situation and help you explore various support scenarios. Our mediators are adept at facilitating discussions about topics, such as the duration of support or conditions for modification. We encourage creative solutions that may include non-traditional arrangements, such as lump-sum payments or the transfer of assets in lieu of ongoing support.

Throughout the process, we strive to balance the needs of the recipient spouse with the financial capabilities of the paying spouse. Our goal is to help you reach a spousal support agreement that provides financial stability while promoting independence where possible. By utilizing our mediation services for spousal support matters, you can often achieve a more flexible and tailored arrangement that addresses the unique aspects of your situation, potentially avoiding the rigidity of court-imposed orders. Our Ontario-based team helps individuals across the province, including in Guelph, Oshawa, and Brampton accurately calculate spousal support in accordance with provincial guidelines.

Mediated spousal support session – Positive Solutions Divorce Services

Spousal support is a payment made by one spouse to the other after separation or divorce to help with financial stability. At Positive Solutions Divorce Services®, we help couples across Ontario, determine spousal support through mediation, not litigation.

Our mediators use the Spousal Support Advisory Guidelines (SSAGs) as a framework to calculate appropriate support amounts and durations. We also consider unique factors like income, age, length of relationship, and financial needs. Our approach avoids court and promotes fair, balanced decisions—quickly and affordably.

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Frequently Asked Questions

How is spousal support determined?

Spousal support is based on several factors, including the length of the relationship, the roles each partner played during the relationship, each person’s financial situation, and whether there are children. The Spousal Support Advisory Guidelines (SSAGs) provide ranges for amount and duration.

Is spousal support mandatory after separation or divorce?

Not always. Eligibility depends on factors like financial need, the ability to pay, and any agreements made during the relationship. Spousal support is not automatic and may be negotiated or decided through mediation or by a court.

How long does spousal support last?

Duration depends on the length of the relationship and the recipient’s circumstances. A common guideline is 0.5 to 1 year of support for each year of cohabitation, but long-term relationships or those involving children may warrant indefinite support.

Can spousal support be changed after it’s been agreed upon or ordered?

Yes. Spousal support can be varied if there is a material change in circumstances (e.g., job loss, retirement, significant income change). This often requires mediation, negotiation, or court review.

Is spousal support tax deductible?

Spousal support payments are generally tax-deductible for the payer and taxable income for the recipient—but only if:

The payments are made periodically (e.g., monthly), not as a lump sum.
There is a written separation agreement or court order in place.
The support is clearly identified as spousal support (not child support).

Child Support Calculations Specialists

Child support mediation for Ontario families – Positive Solutions®

Our experienced mediators are here to guide you through the often-complex process of determining child support arrangements in Canada. We work with both parents to ensure a comprehensive child support agreement that prioritizes the well-being of your children. Our team helps you navigate the Federal Child Support Guidelines, explaining how they apply to your specific situation and income levels.

We assist in gathering and verifying all necessary financial information, providing a checklist of required documents to ensure accuracy and completeness. Our mediators can also facilitate discussions on additional expenses not covered by basic child support, such as extracurricular activities or extraordinary healthcare costs.

Child Support Arrangement Specialists

Positive Solutions aim to help you reach an acceptable agreement that meets your children’s needs while considering both parents’ financial circumstances. By choosing our mediation services for child support matters, you can often achieve a more flexible and personalized arrangement than a court-imposed order, potentially reducing conflict and fostering better co-parenting relationships. Serving all of Ontario, we support parents in cities such as Kingston, Windsor, and Sudbury with precise and fair child support calculations based on provincial standards.

Parents creating child support agreement through mediation

Child support is a legal obligation in Ontario designed to ensure that children continue to receive financial support after separation or divorce. At Positive Solutions Divorce Services®, we help parents calculate and agree on child support amounts using Canada’s Federal Child Support Guidelines—without going to court.

Our trained mediators guide both parents through income disclosure, parenting time considerations, and special expenses like daycare or medical costs. We create a clear, fair agreement that reflects your children’s needs and can be made legally binding once signed. Whether parenting is shared or one parent has primary care, mediation provides a faster, lower-stress solution for families across Ontario.

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Frequently Asked Questions

How is child support calculated in Ontario?

Child support is calculated using the Federal Child Support Guidelines, primarily based on the paying parent’s gross annual income and the number of children. The amount can vary depending on parenting time arrangements.

Do both parents have to pay child support?

Typically, the parent with less parenting time (or the one not primarily residing with the child) pays support. However, in shared parenting arrangements, both parents’ incomes are considered, and a set-off approach may apply.

What income is used for child support calculations?

Gross annual income from all sources is used, including employment, self-employment, commissions, rental income, and certain benefits. Line 15000 of the tax return (previously Line 150) is commonly referenced.

Can child support be adjusted over time?

Yes. Child support is reviewed and adjusted if there is a significant change in income, parenting arrangements, or the child’s needs. Annual income disclosure is often required.

Does child support cover extracurricular activities or school expenses?

No. Basic child support covers food, clothing, and shelter. Special or extraordinary expenses (like daycare, medical costs, or extracurriculars) are separate and typically shared proportionally based on each parent’s income.

Equalization of Property After Separation in Ontario

Equalization of assets during divorce – Positive Solutions Divorce Services

Navigating the complexities of property equalization during a separation or divorce can be challenging, but our experienced mediators are here to help.

Positive Solutions offer expert guidance through every step of this intricate process, working closely with both parties to facilitate a comprehensive and fair division of assets and debts. Our team assists you in identifying all marital property and creating a detailed inventory of your assets and liabilities.

Dividing property after separation in Ontario – Mediation session

We provide our clients with a comprehensive checklist of all the financial and income statements required to draft a thorough and accurate financial report, ensuring no important details are overlooked.

Throughout mediation, we guide you through the valuation process, often coordinating with financial professionals when necessary for complex assets. Our mediators assist you and your spouse to explore various division scenarios and understand the long-term implications of different options.

Our goal is to help you reach a mutually acceptable agreement on property equalization, often finding creative solutions that satisfy both parties’ needs and interests. By choosing our mediation services, you can navigate this process more efficiently, with less conflict, and often at a lower cost than traditional litigation, while ensuring a fair and comprehensive division of your marital assets.

We assist clients throughout Ontario with the equalization of property, ensuring fair division of assets during separation or divorce, whether you’re in London, Barrie, Kitchener, or elsewhere in the province.

At Positive Solutions Divorce Services®, we offer professional family mediation to help couples resolve separation issues respectfully and affordably—without stepping into a courtroom. Our goal is to simplify the process so that both parties can move forward with clarity, fairness, and financial peace of mind.

Mediation is a voluntary process where a neutral third party—your mediator—helps facilitate conversations about important topics such as parenting time, decision making, child and spousal support, and the division of property and debts. Unlike litigation, mediation empowers both individuals to remain in control of the decisions that will shape their family’s future.

We serve clients across Ontario, offering both in-person and online mediation. Whether you’re just beginning the separation process or need help finalizing a few key issues, our flat-rate mediation services provide structure, support, and transparency at every step. Many couples who work with us are surprised at how quickly and calmly they’re able to reach agreement—even on sensitive financial or parenting matters.

Our experienced mediators guide you through the entire process, from gathering necessary financial documents to reviewing parenting priorities. We also help prepare the final Separation Agreement, which can become legally binding once reviewed and signed. If needed, we refer clients to legal professionals for independent legal advice (ILA) to ensure both parties are fully informed before signing.

We’ve helped thousands of couples stay out of court, save thousands in legal fees, and minimize the emotional toll on themselves and their children. For parents, we prioritize the best interests of the children and help create child-focused parenting plans that reduce conflict and foster cooperative co-parenting relationships.

By choosing mediation, you avoid the delays, high costs, and stress of going to court. More importantly, you make the decisions yourselves, instead of having a judge decide for you.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is property equalization in Ontario?

Property equalization is the process of dividing the increase in value of each spouse’s net worth accumulated during the marriage. The spouse with the higher net family property pays half the difference to the other spouse.

How is net family property (NFP) calculated?

NFP is calculated by subtracting the value of assets and debts on the date of marriage from the value of assets and debts on the date of separation. Certain exclusions and deductions (like inheritances or gifts) may apply

What property is excluded from equalization?

Excluded property includes inheritances, gifts from third parties, personal injury awards, and certain insurance proceeds, if kept separate from joint assets. The matrimonial home is not excluded, even if it was inherited or owned before marriage.

Does property equalization apply to common-law couples in Ontario?

No. Property equalization under the Family Law Act applies only to married spouses. Common-law partners are not automatically entitled to a share of each other’s property and must rely on trust claims or specific agreements.

Can spouses agree to divide property differently than equalization rules?

Yes. Spouses can negotiate their own terms in a separation agreement, which can differ from what the law provides, as long as both parties disclose their finances and the agreement is fair and voluntarily entered into.

Family Mediation Services for Separation & Divorce in Ontario

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At Positive Solutions Divorce Services, we specialize in guiding couples through the separation process using our expert mediation services in Ontario. Our experienced mediators work closely with both parties to foster a cooperative environment where open and honest discussions can take place. We help you identify and prioritize the key issues that need to be resolved, such as property division, spousal support, and parenting arrangements.

Our team assists in gathering and organizing all necessary financial information, ensuring both parties have a clear understanding of their financial situation. We facilitate productive negotiations, helping you explore various options and find mutually beneficial solutions.

Our family mediation services in Ontario provide a comprehensive and structured approach to resolving all aspects of separation and divorce. As part of the mediation process, we assist couples with:

✔️ Parenting Plans: Creating clear, customized plans that outline parenting time and decision-making responsibilities.

✔️ Child Support: Calculating child support based on the Federal Child Support Guidelines, ensuring fairness and compliance.

✔️ Spousal Support: Assessing entitlement, amount, and duration using the Spousal Support Advisory Guidelines (SSAGs).

✔️ Property Equalization: Determining net family property and facilitating a fair division of assets and debts.

✔️ Separation Agreements: Drafting legally binding agreements that reflect the terms reached during mediation.

✔️ Divorce Applications: Assisting with the preparation and filing of uncontested divorce applications in Ontario.

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By addressing these important legal and financial matters through mediation, couples can reduce conflict, save money, and reach mutually beneficial solutions without going to court.

Throughout the process, we maintain a neutral stance, ensuring that both parties’ voices are heard, and their interests are considered. Our goal is to help you reach a comprehensive separation agreement that addresses all aspects of your separation, while minimizing conflict and preserving important relationships. By choosing our mediation services, you can navigate your separation with greater control, reduced stress, and significant cost savings compared to traditional litigation. Positive Solutions Divorce Services provides professional mediation services to families across Ontario, helping couples in cities like Toronto, Ottawa, Mississauga, and beyond reach fair and amicable agreements.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What types of issues can mediation help us resolve?

Mediation through Positive Solutions supports nearly every aspect of separation. Our trained mediators guide couples through key topics like parenting plans, including schedules and decision-making; child and spousal support calculations based on Ontario and federal guidelines; property equalization for fair division of assets and debts; drafting separation agreements; and the divorce application process itself. We also assist with domestic contracts such as cohabitation or prenuptial agreements. Our goal is to provide a comprehensive, one-stop mediation solution that helps you finalize all separation-related matters without needing multiple professionals or a court battle—saving you time, money, and stress.

How does the mediation process work?

Divorce mediation at Positive Solutions follows a structured and supportive process:

Free, joint consultation to introduce mediation and learn about your situation.
Individual intake sessions, where you’ll complete financial checklists and explore concerns privately.
Joint mediation meetings in-person or online, where we address parenting, finances, support, and property.
Drafting your Separation Agreement, reflecting your jointly reached decisions.
Legal review (strongly recommended) before signing the agreement.
Final session to outline and confirm next steps (e.g., filing divorce, implementing changes).

This approach provides clarity, fairness, and a plan personalized to your family’s needs—without court involvement.

Can mediation save us money and time compared to going to court?

Yes—mediation is typically much faster and more affordable than traditional litigation. Court cases can drag on for months or years and involve high legal fees. Mediation, on the other hand, usually concludes in 4–8 sessions over a few months, and our flat-fee packages are transparent with optional payment plans. Because you maintain control over decisions and timing, mediation allows for quicker resolutions—and avoids court scheduling delays, motion costs, and unpredictable outcomes. For many of our clients, this means saving thousands of dollars and protecting family budgets during a challenging life transition.

What role does confidentiality play in mediation?

Confidentiality is a cornerstone of our mediation process. Unlike court hearings, which are public, mediation sessions remain private—nothing discussed is part of public record. This allows couples to speak honestly without fear. Mediators adhere to professional confidentiality standards, and any notes taken are securely stored or destroyed. The only exceptions involve legal obligations, such as threats of harm or child protection concerns. Confidentiality helps maintain dignity and trust throughout the process and enables more open, constructive communication.

What happens if we can’t agree on something during mediation?

While mediation aims for comprehensive agreement, it’s flexible if you encounter roadblocks. Mediators will help you explore options, break complex issues into manageable steps, or refer you to specialists—like financial advisors or therapists—as needed. If a specific topic remains unresolved, you can pause mediation or choose targeted legal advice on that point. Importantly, the rest of your agreement can still move forward while specific issues are addressed separately. Our goal is to help you reach as much agreement as possible, while respecting your unique circumstances and pacing.